Is it true that we become what we think? Most people spend their lives trying to change their actions, thinking that if they can just get it right, they'll become who they want to be. We hope that a tweak in our behavior will lead to transformation, but behavior is only on the surface, while identity is deeper, and identity is not built by what you do occasionally; it's shaped by what you think about consistently. We don't become what we do occasionally; we become what we thi